Photo by Tuan B & Co.

Located on the north side of Chicago, IL, this “alarmingly charming” historic venue is perfect for intimate weddings, parties and gatherings. The building, constructed over a century ago, originally housed Engine Company 70. With a few renovations, Firehouse Chicago revived the structure’s white glazed brick and high ceilings, creating a beautifully unique, industrial setting for celebrations of all kinds. Paired with a garden that’s perfect for lounging, this cozy Chicago event venue is an ideal choice for those in search of an intimate setting in the city.

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This styled shoot, planned by Kensington Florals & Events, evokes the luxurious elegance of the early 1900’s, taking cues from the lavish Dole Mansion and including plenty of vintage details and lush florals. All photos by Truly Sublime Photography.

Creating this styled shoot was a simple thought of traveling back in time to the early 1900’s and the luxury of the Dole Mansion.  Featuring romantic Italianate style craftsmanship throughout the magnificent mansion, one can only dream of all the secrets this beautiful backdrop has acquired over the last 158 years. The team wanted to capture a bit of history, with a touch of a Downton Abbey flair, in this modern take on old-world regal enchantments.

Downton Abbey-inspired chic style was evident in the beautifully detailed, vintage bridal gown with a traditional, high neckline, delicate lace, deep-V back and gorgeous train. The model’s hair was swept back in a beautiful semi-updo and topped with a vintage silver-and-diamond-encrusted hairpiece. Her makeup kept with the early 1900’s style and accentuated her features. Vintage jewelry captured the essence of the day and sparkled beautifully. Lovely, whimsical floral bouquets and over-the-top, lush urns added to the upscale extravagance of the shoot. Hand-created flowers adorned the impressive five-tier cake with exquisite stationery that perfectly matched the gorgeous florals of the cake. The striking bridesmaid dress paired beautifully with the bridal gown for a cohesive, luxuriously vintage vibe.

Vendors:

 Event Planner & Florals: Kensington Florals & Events, Bride’s Gown: Dame Couture, Stationery: Emery Ann Design, Photography: Truly Sublime Photography, Venue: Dole Mansion, Hair & Makeup: Golden Bridal Design, Cake: Amy Beck Cake Design, Florals: Blooming Events by Ana Vicol, Bridesmaid Dress: Bridesmaid Social, Jewelry & Accessories: Calla Couture Jewelers, Models: Grace Ransom; Jessie Dziadkowiec

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Congratulations to Rachel & David, our latest honeymoon winners! The couple enjoyed a complimentary honeymoon to Half Moon Jamaica after their wedding. All photos provided by Rachel & David.

What did you like best about your travel experience with Half Moon Jamaica?

We loved the private, secluded beach. We also loved that our suite was directly on the beach with the sound of the ocean right outside our door.

Have you taken an all-inclusive vacation in the past?  How does your Half Moon Jamaica experience compare?

I had taken a cruise which was all-inclusive. The level of service and the quality of food far surpassed anything I’ve ever experienced. It wasn’t like a normal all-inclusive – it was five-star food and drink that just happened to be comped. Steak, lobster, and expensive wine every night – we felt like royalty!

Half Moon Jamaica prides itself on superior customer service. Do you feel you received that?

Absolutely! The staff was extremely personable. There were some employees that had been there for nearly 20 years who really took care of us. You could tell they were staples around the resort.

How did you like your room? Did you enjoy any of the personalized concierge services?

We couldn’t believe our room was right on the beach. We were steps away from our beach chairs!  We loved sitting on the porch in the morning and having breakfast delivered while we read a book and stared out over the ocean.

What excursions did you sign up for?

We didn’t do any of the excursions off the resort but we did paddleboard and one night they had a Jamaican barbecue where they took us in golf carts to another beach where they had set up a delicious buffet and had Jamaican dancers. There were fire dancers and limbo!

Did Half Moon Jamaica feel like a luxurious one-stop-shop?

Yes, in fact we really didn’t leave the resort at all. We had everything we needed. There were tennis courts, gyms and pools, and they had snorkeling and paddleboarding. The resort was extremely expansive so you could take long walks and explore the property. There was also a really beautiful, upscale restaurant that you could shuttle to that was still Half Moon property called the Sugar Mill. The food was absolutely delightful. This was our favorite place.

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One of the main reasons that couples gravitate towards getting married in Chicago is its rich history.  From its rough and tumble days as a 19th-century transportation hub to its current status as one of the most beautiful and visited cities in the world, Chicago has a knack for winning the hearts of everyone who passes through its streets and engaged couples are a healthy portion of that population. Many of the Windy City’s premier wedding locations offer a unique and fascinating slice of history in addition to typical venue amenities. Read on to discover these quintessential Chicago venues and get inspired to throw a celebration that the Second City will never forget.

Art Institute of Chicago

The original Art Institute was built in 1870, but like many great buildings it was destroyed by the Chicago Fire. It moved around a few times before being built in its permanent home on Michigan Avenue in 1893 and was built for the distinguished World’s Fair. The museum and its vast collection of artwork have grown and changed considerably over the years, but its stateliness and attention to detail have remained the same. The Art Institute offers a variety of both indoor and outdoor ceremony and reception spaces, allowing each couple to find a spot within the museum’s campus that truly speaks to them in an inventive way. Being able to add artists like Monet and Dali to your guest list is an opportunity beyond compare, and it is one that only the Art Institute can truly deliver.

Chicago Athletic Association

The Chicago Athletic Association has spent 125 years influencing Chicago’s social landscape and leaving a distinct mark on the Windy City. The Venetian Gothic building was also completed just in time for the 1893’s World’s Fair and the grand façade of the private men’s club was on full display as an innumerable amount of guests flooded Chicago to attend the celebrated event. The Chicago Athletic Association Hotel has long since opened its doors to all Chicago residents, but the building’s visual impact and alluring mixture of competitive spirit and class have stood the test of time and continue to attract engaged couples who seek a venue with character and flair.

Chicago History Museum

Chicago’s original history museum was one of the many causalities of The Great Chicago Fire of 1871 but once the collection found a permanent home in 1932, the Chicago Historical Society – which would one day become the Chicago History Museum that we know and love – began to flourish and continues to do so to this day. While its library of historical items continues to wow and amaze, it’s the museum’s firm determination to tell the stories of the city and its people that makes it such a powerful landmark. Hosting a wedding at the Chicago History Museum gives couples a unique way to become a part of that narrative and is truly a venue that your guests will never forget.

Chicago Public Library / Harold Washington Library

The Chicago Public Library is another Windy City landmark that overcame the horror and destruction of the Great Chicago Fire and became an irreplaceable part of the city. The library began in the aftermath of the inferno as a British donation of 8,000 books to the city of Chicago in order to start a free public library. It eventually blossomed into an inter nationally renowned library that attracts the attention of everyone from elementary school children and Bill Gates, to engaged couples who simply cannot get enough of this gorgeous venue.

First United Methodist Church at the Chicago Temple

In addition to being the oldest church in Chicago, the First United Methodist Church predates the city itself by a full six years. The church was originally just a quaint log cabin that sat north of the Chicago River, but it was eventually floated across the river and rolled to its current location on the corner of Washington and Clark using logs. The church put down roots there and while its exterior has undergone a series of upgrades and renovations over the past two centuries (some planned, and some induced by the Great Chicago Fire), the persistent spirit of the Chicago Temple is what has allowed it to become one of the most famous urban churches in the United States and a frequented ceremony destination for couples from all over the world.

Hotel Allegro

This iconic remnant of the Golden Era has appeared in different forms and operated under different names over the years but its rich and storied past is what keeps guests coming back time and time again. In the 1930s when Hotel Allegro was known as the New Bismarck Hotel, it was the site of the very first legal draft pour in the city. Three decades later, the building was purchased by the Kimpton Hotel & Restaurant Group and underwent a series of extensive renovations that transformed the building into an art deco homage. Today’s Hotel Allegro features all the glitz and glamour of the Roaring Twenties along with the building’s original handrails and chandeliers. To host a wedding at Hotel Allegro is the equivalent of taking your guests on a time-traveling adventure with a modern flair.

The Landing 1841

Indians. An Underground Railroad conductor. A humble dairy farmer. A hall of fame aviator. A world-renowned artist. At first glance, you would never assume that the aforementioned people had anything significant in common but in reality, they are all united by one common thread: at one point or another, each one of them was the proud owner of the property at The Landing 1841. Today, the venue shines with a vintage-rustic charm that has enticed hundreds of couples to select it as their wedding venue. And if its deep history and natural charisma were not enough, the barn also offers breathtaking panoramic views of the White River and its beautifully forested property.

LondonHouse Chicago

Prior to being transformed into a hotel, the LondonHouse operated as a famous club that served as the musical homeaway-from-home for several of jazz’s most brilliant luminaries. Stars like Herby Hancock, Oscar Peterson, Ramsey Lewis, and more recorded sets there and treated Chicago music enthusiasts to incomparable performances before the club closed its doors in the 1970s. The property reopened in 2016 as LondonHouse Chicago, a luxury lifestyle hotel that’s the perfect place for trendy couples to tie the knot.

Loyola Cuneo Mansion

This architectural gem was originally owned by General Electric founder Sam Insull but was purchased by the Cuneo family following the Great Depression. The mansion itself was designed in the Italianate style and the property’s lush gardens were created by a world-renowned landscape artist. The estate

and its accompanying art museum were gifted to Loyola University Chicago in the early 2000s. They have since become one of Chicagoland’s most sought-after wedding venues. One look at the mansion’s cheerful façade and statue laden front porch makes it easy to understand why engaged couples cannot stop falling in love with this venue.

The Knickerbocker Chicago

Built in 1927, The Knickerbocker Chicago boasts a colorful history. Highlights include Al Capone’s brother running a casino on the Penthouse Floor and a brief yet memorable stint in the 1970s when the hotel served as the Playboy Towers. John F. Kennedy, Richard Nixon, and the members of the Rolling Stones have all enjoyed a stay at The Knickerbocker Chicago, and the hotel is often touted as one of Chicago’s most iconic buildings. Today, couples who host their reception in the hotel’s Crystal Ballroom are treated to ornate delights such as a gilded golden ceiling and an illuminated dance floor, just to name a few.

Palmer House

Palmer House originally served as an extravagant wedding gift from owner Potter Palmer to his new bride, a young French socialite named Bertha Honoré. Following decimation at the hands of the Great Chicago Fire, the Palmer House was rebuilt and became home to the largest collection of impressionist artwork outside of France. Garnet-draped chandeliers, regal frescos, and other masterpieces were soon added to the mix and before long, Palmer House had become Chicago’s liveliest social center. Frank Sinatra, Judy Garland, Ella Fitzgerald, Louis Armstrong, and a slew of U.S. Presidents spent time at the hotel, along with prominent literary figures like Charles Dickens and Oscar Wilde. Palmer House still maintains every drop of its historic majesty and elegance and serves as one of the premier wedding venues in Chicago.

Armour House Mansion & Gardens

While his wife was away in Vienna, Jonathan Ogden Armour purchased a 1200-acre property known as Mellody Farm and made plans to build a mansion on the land to surprise her upon her return. Four years and ten million dollars later, Armour House Mansion & Gardens came to fruition. The mansion, known as Reid Hall, featured internationally imported mantle pieces from a variety of different countries as well as an impressive marble staircase that was built with the primary purpose of one day serving as a dramatic marital entrance for the couple’s daughter. The estate changed hands several times but eventually landed in the care of Lake Forest Academy. The school utilizes the gorgeous mansion and surrounding grounds (designed by the same landscape architect as Loyola Cuneo Mansion) as an event space beyond compare.

The Willis Tower

The star of the Chicago skyline didn’t open to tenants until 1973, but it quickly rose to fame and prominence as one of the most impressive architectural feats in the world. Today, the tower is home to multiple incredible wedding venues that each offer couples an entirely different experience. Weddings will find themselves perfectly at home at Skydeck Chicago, which is located on the Willis Tower’s 103rd floor. Here, couples can celebrate their marriage above the clouds and brave guests can venture out onto The Ledge (a glass box that extends almost five feet directly off the side of the tower while offering unobstructed views of the city). Several floors down, but still soaring at breathtaking heights, The Metropolitan is situated on the 66th and 67th floors. The Metropolitan offers incomparable panoramic views of the city and shoreline and is the perfect space for the modern Chicagoan.

Warwick Allerton Hotel Chicago

Opened in 1924 as one of the crown jewels of Chicago’s Roaring Twenties scene, the Warwick Allerton has its roots as an exclusive club hotel for men that catered to the young entrepreneurs flocking to the city for all the white-collar jobs. Members enjoyed private libraries and lounges in addition to a barbershop, miniature golf course, and a gymnasium. In the 1940s, the clubrooms on the 23rd floor were replaced by The Tip Top Tap, a cocktail lounge with striking views of the Chicago skyline that was heralded by a large sign atop the building’s roof. The Warwick Allerton Hotel Chicago of today has stayed true to its glamorous origins and maintained its reputation for flawlessly delivering luxury events.

Congress Plaza Hotel

Congress Plaza Hotel opened in 1893 for the famous Chicago World’s Fair, showing that Chicago had bounced back from the devastating Great Fire of 1871. The hotel featured cobbled streets, gaslights, and horse drawn carriages. The elaborately designed hotel soon became a favorite among Chicago’s high society and politicians. Many famous people have stayed at the hotel, including several U.S. Presidents. In fact, the Congress Plaza Hotel was known as the “Home of Presidents” among Chicago hotels. The Congress Plaza Hotel also served as home to Al Capone, who had a suite on the 8^th floor of the north tower. Capone’s spirit is thought to haunt the hotel to this very day. Today, following nearly 125 years of refinements and refurbishments, the Congress Plaza Hotel stands as a living, breathing piece of Chicago history with a story as rich and fascinating as that of the Windy City itself.

Q Center is a new and beautiful addition to Chicago-area weddings in recent years, with previous history as being a private corporate training facility to Fortune 500 companies. Situated on 95 acres along the stunning Fox River in St. Charles, IL, the venue offers a wide range of indoor and outdoor locations, including a sprawling 19,000-square-foot ballroom and an intimate outdoor pavilion for stunning waterfront ceremonies. From small affairs to grand soirees, this venue offers the whole package with on-site accommodations, event planners, catering and plenty of services and recreation options to make your happily ever after come to life!

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If you’re planning a wedding, chances are you’re in need of somewhere for all of your out-of-town guests to stay. Luckily for you, we’ve rounded up some of the best guest accommodations in Chicago and Chicagoland so you can cross ‘book hotel room blocks’ off of your to-do list.

There are a few key priorities to keep in mind when booking guest accommodations for your wedding weekend. You’ll want to give guests an option that is in a reasonable price range, in close proximity to your reception venue, and that provides necessary amenities. Guests usually prefer booking in a hotel block because they know they will be in a convenient location (especially if they aren’t familiar with the area) and close to other guests for any post-reception mingling, plus it’s always nice to score a discounted rate. It’s best to arrange hotel blocks at two or three hotels if you are expecting a large number of out-of-town guests or if one of the hotels is exceptionally expensive. If your wedding venue offers guest accommodations, make sure to start your search there!

Before you sign a contract locking down your guest accommodations, make sure you fully understand the terms. Some hotels will charge you a fee based on the number of unsold rooms, so read the contract closely. Pay attention to terms like “allowable shrinkage clause”—the percentage of rooms that are allowed to be unbooked— and “attrition rate” or “minimum commitment”— the percentage of rooms that must be booked in order to avoid paying a penalty. Securing a hotel block can be a bit tricky, which is why it’s best to work with a seasoned wedding planner who knows the ins and outs of contracts and can help make the process less intimidating.

If you’re planning a Chicagoland wedding, we’ve gone ahead and done some research for you. Below we’ve got 7 of the best Chicago and Chicagoland hotels that your wedding guests will love! Scroll through to find the perfect hotel for your wedding weekend!

Hotel Versey

Location: Chicago City

Hotel Versey is a quirky, edgy hotel with the goal of making your guests feel “like a local.” Featured in Architectural Digest‘s “The 12 Best Designed Hotels Opening This Year,” Hotel Versey is sure to impress. Your guests will love being walking distance from some of Chicago’s top attractions, like Wrigley Field, the Lincoln Park Zoo, and Lake Michigan.

For more information on rates and availability, visit their website.

The Guesthouse Hotel

Location: Chicago City

The Guesthouse Hotel is located in the historic Andersonville neighborhood. The boutique hotel features 25-units offering one, two- and three- bedroom accommodations. The Guesthouse Hotel is more like a home away from home for your out-of-town wedding guests. The hotel offers a unique, individualized experience that your guests will appreciate and remember. With in-room dining offered from local restaurants, a fabulous rooftop deck, games and movies for the kids, and a fitness center, your guests will have everything they need for a pleasant stay in Chicago.

For more information on rates and availability, visit their website.

The Carleton of Oak Park

Location: West Chicagoland

The Carleton of Oak Park is a stylish, boutique hotel nestled in the historic district of Oak Park, Illinois and mere walking distance from the charming downtown. The hotel offers premium amenities, including free wi-fi, free parking, dinner room service, and seasonal outdoor dining.

Considering hosting your wedding at The Carleton? Brides and grooms enjoy a complimentary suite, with deluxe overnight accommodations for guests at preferred rates.

For more information on rates and availability, visit their website.

The Holiday Inn Mart Plaza River North

Location: Chicago City

The Holiday Inn Chicago Mart Plaza River North is located in Chicago’s exciting River North and features panoramic views of the Chicago River and a dazzling city skyline. The guestrooms and suites are newly redesigned with contemporary furnishings and fabulous views. Your guests staying at The Holiday Inn Chicago Mart Plaza River North will enjoy complimentary wi-fi, fitness center, and a heated indoor pool between wedding events.

For more information on rates and availability, visit their website.

The Gwen

Location: Chicago City

The Gwen, A Luxury Collection Hotel, Michigan Avenue Chicago, is perfectly placed near Michigan Avenue to give guests easy access to Chicago’s famous attractions, jazz clubs, theaters and shopping on the Magnificent Mile and North Bridge Mall. The Gwen will transport your out-of-town wedding guests back to 1930’s Chicago. The stunning art deco hotel features all the glam of the past with all the amenities of the 21st Century. With fantastic restaurants on property, 24-hour room service, and in-room spa treatments available, guests may not want to leave!

For more information on rates and availability, visit their website.

DuPage Convention & Visitors Bureau

Location: West Chicagoland

DuPage Convention and Visitors Bureau has made finding a hotel in the DuPage area a breeze. Luxury boutiques, activity-filled resorts, and pet-friendly accommodations are just a few of the many stay options in DuPage County. If you are planning a wedding in DuPage, you have a wide variety of fabulous options to choose from for your wedding guests. With a wide selection of stunning reception venues to unforgettable settings for your wedding photos, DuPage County offers unique experiences for your memorable day, and has plenty of perfect hotels to accommodate your guests for the weekend.

For more information on specific hotels, rates and availability, visit their website.

Trump International Hotel & Tower

Location: Chicago City

Trump International Hotel & Tower Chicago is perfectly located on the Chicago River, affording guests stunning views from the 92-floor hotel. Your wedding guests will enjoy custom furnishings, floor-to-ceiling windows, and fully equipped kitchens in their rooms or suites. After a night of celebrating, guests can enjoy a relaxing treatment at the luxurious spa or unwind at the indoor pool. Those new to Chicago will enjoy the close proximity to all the fun downtown has to offer.

For more information on rates and availability, visit their website.

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Designed by Lillian Rose Events, the Old World charm and elegant details of this styled shoot combined to create an unforgettable vintage Tuscan wedding at Galleria Marchetti. All photos by Jasko Omerovic Photography.

La Pergola at Galleria Marchetti was the inspiration for this elegant, vintage Tuscany styled shoot. Lillian Rose Events selected a warm, neutral color palette to pair with the abundant olive used in the floral arrangements. The bride and groom were exquisitely styled and Old World charm was evident in the stationery, accessories, and table design throughout the space. The romantic vibe of the shoot was accentuated by the exposed brick, abundant greenery and warm, twinkling lights. The bride’s generous bouquet highlighted the luxurious feel of this vintage-inspired shoot while the detailed china place settings lent an air of sophistication. The carefully curated elements worked together to create a truly elegant, classic Tuscan wedding day.

Vendors:

 Venue: Galleria Marchetti, Photographer: Jasko Omerovic Photography, Videography: Newlyweds Cinema, Event Planner: Lillian Rose Events, Floral: Phillips Flowers, Décor & Rentals: Dish & Decor Vintage Rentals, Hair & Makeup: Meghana Prasad, Stationery: Lina Lulu Paperie, Linens: BBJ Linen, Bride’s Gown: Edith Élan via Dame Couture, Bride’s Shoes: James Ciccotti, Bride’s Accessories: Davie & Chio; Ti Adoro Jewelry; Jennifer Leigh Veil Design,  Formalwear: The Groomsman Suit, Models: Naftali Kark & Stephanie Straka

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Looking for a truly unique place to celebrate? This is it! Brookfield Zoo’s lush grounds and tranquil settings serve as a beautiful backdrop for wedding and events near Chicago. And don’t forget the best part—the animals! With opportunities to include this venue’s wildest features, your big day is sure to be memorable!

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Planning a gorgeous wedding reception but unsure about who will serve your food, man the bar, or oversee your rentals? Read on to see how Carol’s Event Staffing is the answer to all of your serving needs. Their truly customizable service is the perfect addition to your wedding vendor team. All photos by Roots of Life Photography.

What services do you provide?

We provide professional staffing to cover all of your food and bar needs. We make sure your guests are taken care of throughout the night. We also take care of all set-up and clean up. There is nothing worse than worrying about breakdown at the end of the night. Let us take care of it while you and your guests enjoy the after party!

How does Carol’s Event Staffing work with other wedding vendors, like caterers and wedding planners?

We fit in flawlessly with other vendors! We will work with drop-off caterers and even multiple caterers if you like, to serve hors d’oeuvres, dinner, dessert, and late night snacks. We provide a captain and kitchen staff to manage the food, the room flip, and the breakdown. If you have a wedding planner, we complement their services well. We’ll walk through your needs, plans, and ideas with you and your planner to make sure everyone is on the same page. We make sure we know and understand your dreams so that we can provide you with the best service possible.

Do you provide any rental items a couple may need for their reception?

We sure do! We can coordinate your rental ware needs in full, or fill in any missing items you don’t have provided. We regularly rent tables, linens, chairs, plates, glassware, flatware, portable bars, and chafing dishes to name a few. Our Rental Coordinator is happy to discuss your needs and make recommendations on amounts, delivery and pick-up, and even needs you may not have anticipated. Our staff are very experienced and handle all of the unpacking, setting up, and boxing for return, so you don’t have to worry about items being damaged or your own personal items getting mixed in with the rentals. We will coordinate with the third-party rental service so you don’t have to worry about managing any of the details.

How is your service flexible to fit the unique needs of a couple’s Big Day?

We can provide as much help as you need. If your venue doesn’t provide any servers, we can set you up with food and bar service for any type of menu—passed hors d’oeuvres, plated dinners, a buffet, or food stations. If you have food and beverage service covered, we can take care of setting up your ceremony space, flipping your space between the ceremony and reception, bussing and clearing tables, managing any rental items, and full clean-up after your reception. Our service is super adaptable to your specific needs.

What kinds of service do your bartenders provide?

We provide the team to manage your BYOB Bar! We provide talented, flexible bartenders to suit your unique needs. Our professional bar staff will set up the bar area– including cutting garnishes, prepping batched cocktails, or pre-pouring wine for the arriving guests. We will prepare and serve your specialty drinks or your full bar all night and break it all down, setting aside any unused product so that you can save it or sell it back to your vendor. Bartenders come prepared with their own bar kits including: pourers, wine opener, ice scoop, shaker, strainer, and bottle opener. We can meet your needs whether you’re serving a full open bar, only beer and wine, and your champagne toast.

Let our team help make your special day run flawlessly. We are sure to fit your unique needs perfectly.

Carol’s Event Staffing provides professional serving and bartending staff to private and corporate events. Their goal is to provide from beginning to end professional, friendly and attentive service to guarantee successful and flawless events each and every time. Email [email protected] for more information on working with Carol’s Event Staffing to complete your wedding reception needs. 

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There’s no denying that on your wedding day, you – the beautiful, blushing bride – will be the star of the show. Your groom will look dapper in his suit, your bridesmaids will be glowing in their dresses, and your flower girl and ring bearer will be so cute you can barely stand it. Yet despite all of that, you will still be the one at the center of attention. Some women adore the spotlight while others find themselves feeling slightly shy and bashful. Regardless, many soon-to-be brides feel the pressure to look perfect on their wedding day. That pressure can lead brides to make hasty life changes disguised as healthy ones. No matter if you have been intending to pursue these life changes for a while, these not-so-healthy choices can actually do more harm than good for your body (we’re looking at you, crash dieting). Figuring out the healthiest and most effective ways to get in shape and feel your best can be tricky, and many women have a hard time figuring out where to begin. So what’s a girl to do? ChicagoStyle Weddings and the experts are here to help pave the way to a healthier and happier you.

DO: Start months in advance.

The biggest mistake that brides make is delaying the fitness process until a few weeks before their wedding and then expect to see a drastic change. Just like building a solid relationship, sculpting your body is a process that takes a considerable amount of time and effort. Getting healthy doesn’t happen overnight. Whether you have been working out here and there or haven’t seen the inside of a gym in months, we recommend committing to your workout and diet plan shortly after your engagement. The celebratory buzz that accompanies a proposal is an amazing motivator, and when you’re dying on the treadmill and can’t remember why you thought cardio was a good idea, a quick glance down at the sparkle on your ring finger should be enough to keep your head in the game.

DO: Stagger the start of your diet and your workout.

The goal, of course, is to diet and workout at the same time, but enforcing a strict diet and implementing a challenging workout routine can be a shock to the body. If you think you can handle starting both prongs of your fitness plan at once, then by all means, do so. However, there’s a considerably higher success rate if you take things one step at a time. It’s up to you whether you want to start with your diet or with your workouts, but we recommend beginning your fitness journey with your diet. It might take a few days to get into a rhythm but eating “clean” gives you a boost of energy that will make your initial workouts more tolerable. After a week or so of eating clean, lace up your shoes and get ready to hit the gym.

DO: Attack your fitness goals with a plan.

The second biggest mistake that brides make is failing to formulate a plan of attack. In order to succeed, you will need a structure that goes beyond “I’m going to cut out dessert and try to work out when I can.” To start, write down your goals while keeping your gown in mind. Strapless? Tone those arms. High-low? It’s all about your legs. Mermaid? Perk up your butt. While spot training (targeting only one area of your body and expecting it to drastically change) has been thoroughly debunked, it’s okay to put a little extra focus on certain areas in addition to doing full-body cardio and strength training. Regardless of what workout plan you decide to adhere to, it’s important to set a realistic schedule. Print out a weekly calendar and pick which days are your workout days, keeping in mind that you deserve at least two days off. Juggling work, wedding planning, your social life, and a workout regimen can be difficult, but the first week is always the hardest. Once you get into a routine, things tend to balance out and get easier.

DO: Vary your workout and exercise with friends.

One of our favorite bridal workout tips is to get your bridesmaids involved. If you’re lucky enough to live in the same city as your leading ladies, hit the gym together or sign up for SoulCycle, Pure Barre, or any other type of group fitness class. If your bridesmaids agree to join your health crusade but live out of town, turn your GroupMe into a motivational support squad and send each other positive reinforcement. There’s a chance your bridesmaids have minimal interest in pursuing your fitness goals alongside you and that’s perfectly okay. If your girls aren’t up for the challenge, try grabbing your groom and turning him into your workout buddy instead. The real takeaway here is that no matter who you enlist as your partner (or partners) in crime, working out with your fiancé or friends is a great way to keep your workouts fresh, fun, and consistent.

DON’T: Buy a dress for the body you think you’ll have 8 months from now.

The urge to buy a dress for a body you don’t yet have comes from a positive, optimistic place, but it’s a dangerous road to head down. In addition to further heightening the pressure behind your pre-wedding fitness plans, there’s a good chance that you might not transform from a size fourteen to a size six in a matter of months. You’re setting yourself up for disappointment on a day that should be filled with nothing but happiness, and that’s why we highly recommend shopping for the body that you currently have no matter how motivated you think you are.

DON’T: Fall down the Instagram fitness rabbit hole.

No two bodies are exactly the same, which means the way you gain muscle or lose weight will be different from your favorite Instagram models and fitness gurus. Not all butts can be sculpted to reach Jen Selter-status, and Kayla Itsines’ legendary abs are practically the eighth wonder of the world. Don’t forget, Instagram icons know exactly how to position the camera to make their bodies look out of this world. Bone structure and genetics play a huge role in what body type you have, which makes every fitness journey unique. It’s important not to compare yourself to other women – especially those who have dedicated their entire careers to fitness.

DON’T: Overreact to messing up your fitness plan.

You have been killing your workouts and diet for two weeks. You are feeling great, you’re starting to notice your body toning up, and then you go out with the girls one Friday night and the drunk munchies strike. Rather than accepting the minor slip up as an inevitable cheat day and climbing right back onto the horse, many brides have a tendency to say, “I screwed up. I might as well just call it all off right now.” Avoid the urge to be a perfectionist and go easy on yourself. One glorious night of 3 A.M. pizza rolls is not going to derail your health journey unless you allow it to. Just pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and return to your quinoa.

DON’T: Cram the night before or the day of your wedding.

This is one of the most important don’ts on the list, and it’s the one that always gets dismissed. At this point we probably sound like a broken record but we’re only repeating ourselves because it’s so important. Say it with us now: Fitness. Isn’t. An. Overnight. Process. If you haven’t been working out consistently and decide to go to Barry’s Bootcamp the day before your wedding, the only things you will gain are a painful limp and a significant dose of embarrassment as your overworked leg muscles try their best to get you down the aisle. And the same goes for achieving “Michelle Obama Arms” after putting in a single night’s worth of dips and curls – it’s not going to happen. Crash dieting is the worst of them all. If you wake up the morning of your wedding and decide that the breakfast of champions consists only of water and an apple, you stand the risk of ruining your entire day. Not fueling your body appropriately can lead to nausea, dizziness, and even fainting. Once you add a healthy serving of wedding jitters into the mix, those side effects increase tenfold. Passing out at the altar will probably secure you a spot in a “Most Embarrassing Wedding Fails” reel, so eat a sensible breakfast and avoid internet infamy.

If this all sounds too hard and you’re feeling demoralized, never fear: your fiancé didn’t propose to a hypothetical, post-fitness-crazed version of you. He or she proposed to the perfect you that exists right now, cellulite and not-quite-a-six pack abs included. Becoming a healthier version of yourself is always something to strive for, but that in no way means that you aren’t beautiful exactly the way you are and deserving of the bridal spotlight.

No matter how amazing your makeup and hair stylists are, there are certain self-inflicted beauty disasters that no professional should have to navigate.

If you were a professional painter, would you rather create a masterpiece on a fresh, flawless canvas, or one that’s stained and poked full of holes? unless you’re going for a look that’s wildly unorthodox, we’re betting that you would opt for the clean canvas instead of the messy one. In order for you to leave your appointment looking like a bridal masterpiece, you need to do yourself and your beauty team the courtesy of prepping intelligently beforehand and not arriving at the salon looking like a train wreck. we aren’t saying that you need to walk in looking picture perfect – it’s your artists’ job to get you camera-ready, and minor flaws like errant pimples and dark under eye circles can be easily remedied – but there are certain beauty behaviors that no bride-to-be should ever engage in. Read on to discover our list of definite beauty blunders.

Blunder: Attempting a Quick Emergency Tan.

Whether you’re slathering on lotion, getting sprayed in a booth, baking in a bed, or laying out beneath some good old-fashioned natural sunlight, the odds of a last-minute quickie tan going well are incredibly low. Darkening lotions and spray tans are notorious for their streaky results and tanning beds and poolside lounging can culminate in horrific burns. So, what’s the key to successful tanning? Start early. Instead of using an overnight miracle lotion, opt for a gradual product that builds color with each use and start applying it about a week before the wedding. if you are the spray tan type, the same rule applies. Start with a lighter option and gradually work your way up to avoid an oompa loompa debacle on the eve of your Big Day. While we can’t responsibly endorse tanning beds due to health concerns, we can say that if you insist on this option, be smart about it and tan in increments rather than attempting a twenty-minute power session beneath the UV lights the night before your wedding.

Blunder: Testing Out New Beauty Products or Regimens.

No matter how convincing the reviews are online, do not – we repeat DO NOT – use any skin or haircare product that you haven’t used in the past. The night before you get hitched is not the time to finally try that fancy Brazilian exfoliating cream you got in your stocking last Christmas, and the same goes for any new lotions, shampoos, conditioners, makeup… you get the idea. Even if you have never had sensitive skin in the past or haven’t had a disastrous run-in with a new beauty product, it’s better to err on the side of caution and stick to what you know. This rule doesn’t just apply to products you can buy at a store – whipping up new homemade concoctions are also a bad idea. Making an avocado and coconut oil smoothing mask sounds like a great idea in theory, but when you show up for your beauty appointment the next morning with hundreds of tiny green clumps in your hair (mashing the ingredients with a fork is not the same as pureeing them), you’re going to have an awful lot of explaining to do. Just trust us on this one, save the skin and haircare experiments for a different night.

Blunder: Trying Aggressive Fake Nails for the First Time.

We’re all about looking to Instagram for mani-pedi inspiration, but if you’ve never worn long acrylic nails before, your wedding day is not the time to give them a test drive. They might look amazing but if you aren’t used to wearing them, performing even the simplest wedding day tasks will be next to impossible. Popping in your contacts, touching up your makeup, and holding utensils at your reception all become infinitely harder when you’ve got a set of inch-long talons glued to your fingers. So unless you are already an expert, go with the nail routine you’re used to.

Blunder: Giving Botox or Lip Plumpers a Whirl.

They may have worked wonders for your favorite celebrities but getting any kind of permanent wrinkle treatments or fillers near your wedding day is like betting on the worst horse in the race. There’s a chance that everything will work out in your favor, but there’s an even higher chance that your treatment will go wrong. Infection, inflammation, swelling, redness, itching, bleeding, bruising, allergic reaction… unless you’re going for the Bride of Frankenstein look, we recommend saving your artificial enhancements for after your wedding. Dabbling in Botox is entirely your choice, but trying it for the first time right before your wedding is borderline reckless.

Blunder: Using Communal Makeup Collections.

We’re all for sharing your deepest secrets and biggest dreams with your bridal party, but your makeup is one thing that you should absolutely keep to yourself. If you’re rolling your eyes and preparing to skip to the next item on our list, pause and imagine your honeymoon. Is pink eye part of your vision? If not, take this rule seriously. But I want all my bridesmaids to look cohesive, you are probably thinking to yourself. And I don’t want to make them all splurge on lavender eyeshadow that they’ll never wear again. The good news is that if you’ve hired a professional makeup artist for your wedding, you won’t have to waste a single moment worrying about gross germs. If you’ve decided to forgo professional help and want everyone to do their own makeup, remember that Q-tips are your friends and bring a bundle of them to your bridal suite.

Blunder: Insisting on Going Over the Top.

Until now, we have mostly focused on beauty blunders that happen before the Big Day, but one of the most common mistakes actually occurs the day-of. Every girl who’s ever modeled or done theatre knows that in order to look your best on camera and video, your makeup needs to be a little bolder than normal. Since your wedding day is one of the most photographed days of your life, it’s understandable that you would want to treat that rule like gospel. However, it’s dangerously easy to go overboard. Whether it’s dark bronzer, garish eyeshadow, heavy liner, or any other extreme beauty faux pas, we recommend leaving theatrical makeup looks to the runway models and opting for a style that’s less outlandish. As you stand at the altar with your partner and exchange vows, you want them to gaze lovingly into your eyes and not be distracted by the fact that your XXL Ultra Max Volume Explosion fake lashes are slowly becoming unglued. Yikes.

Blunder: Forgetting that Internal Health Fuels External Beauty.

Even if you’re armed with enough hair and makeup products to open your own beauty counter at the mall, all of your helpful tools, brushes, and sprays will be for naught if you don’t take care of yourself on the inside. Hit the gym. Drink tons of water. Eat your greens. Take daily vitamins (and get them from your doctor, not a former reality show contestant who is peddling “the next big thing” on Instagram). Concealers and hair treatments might make you look like a million dollars but living a healthy life is what will make you feel like a million dollars. The list of beauty do’s and don’ts is almost endless and feeling overwhelmed is totally understandable. However, the beauty blunders that we have discussed with you are things that can easily be avoided with a little planning and common sense. Steer clear of these and you will be well on your way to looking gorgeous on your wedding day.

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This styled shoot features a classic steakhouse wedding at Smith & Wollensky Chicago with some fun, surprising twists. All photos by Lori Sapio Photographer.

This styled shoot delivers a twist on the classic steakhouse wedding. The team chose Smith & Wollensky Chicago for its remarkable views of the Chicago River and the city skyline, as well as its classic dark-wood tones and the mouthwatering steaks. The refined elegance of the wedding reception was highlighted by fun twists and pops of color. The darkly romantic floral arrangements featured unexpected coral blooms; the groom rocked a navy houndstooth tux; the bride stunned in a glam, bohemian wedding gown. The unexpected elements of the venue brought a fun touch to the day as well. With a statue of a bear in the stairwell and lifesize carved antelope, this classy steakhouse reception featured the perfect touch of unexpected charm.

Vendors:

 Venue: Smith & Wollensky Chicago, Photography: Lori Sapio Photographer, Event Planner: Dotted Events, Bride’s Gown: Ellie Day Collection, Hair & Makeup: Carla of Kate Johnson Artistry, Formalwear: Formally Modern Tuxedo, Floral: Anemone Creative, Bride’s Accessories: Kata Banko Couture, Cake: Chicago Custom Cakes, Stationery: Erickson Design, Rentals: BBJ Linen, Models: The Rock Agency

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How to Confidently Find the Dress of Your Dreams

As a little girl, I would spend hours lining my stuffed animals up along my bedroom floor to witness the vows between Barbie and Ken. I dressed up as a bride for multiple Halloweens and quickly fell in love with fairy tales and all things related to “Happily Ever After”. Years before I met my now-husband, I began to plan my dream wedding as I could not wait to experience my own personal fairy tale with my very own prince charming. I would cut images out from piles and piles of bridal magazines in an attempt to piece together my future perfect day.

After the initial shock of my proposal began to wear off and I blissfully floated back down to reality, I quickly began to wonder what dress I would wear. I recalled all of the bridal fashion that had been accumulating in my mind for over a decade and I rapidly became flushed with panic. This would be the dress of all dresses and one that I wanted to remember as nothing less than perfection. All brides-to-be are faced with the decision of which dress to choose, and while this may seem like a monumental task, there are several ways to lessen any anxiety that accompanies this process. Rest assured, you will be armed with the knowledge and confidence necessary to decide on the dress of your dreams without second-guessing yourself along the way.

Calculate Your Budget.

There is no sense in falling in love with a gown that is outside of your budget. By firmly setting a budget prior to looking at dresses, you are ensuring that you will be able to fall in love with, and afford, your dream dress. It is important to keep in mind the cost of any alterations that might be necessary

in order for your dress to fit properly. I was able to find a reasonably priced gown for my wedding, but the alterations needed for it to actually fit ended up costing well over half of the initial dress price. What started as a steal quickly turned pricey. While there is absolutely no harm in shopping around for alterations, make sure that whomever you choose is reputable and guarantees his or her work. While there may be less expensive alteration options available, having your dream dress altered incorrectly could quickly turn into a nightmare.

When setting your wedding dress budget, also keep in mind what accessories or details will be necessary in order to make your dream a reality. Does your vision include shoes that will cost double the price of your dress itself? Will your gown only look complete with the inclusion of added detailing? Have you thought about how much the veil you have dreamt about since you were a little girl actually costs now that it’s time to say “I do?” By doing so, you will help define your budget, and most importantly, find a final look that fits within your allotted budget.

Decide on Your Image.

Have you always dreamed of walking down the aisle looking like a princess in a gown that would make Cinderella envious? Or are you seeking a simple yet elegant look? Are you opting out of a dress completely and on the hunt for a modern pantsuit? Deciding what look you would like to convey on your wedding day will help weed out a handful of cumbersome options and unnecessary shopping related stress. In your hands, you are currently holding a wealth of information when it comes to all things weddings; flip through these pages and see if any gowns stand out to you. Utilize social media as a tool in order to gain inspiration from other brides who have paved the way before you. Reference all of these resources prior to stepping inside a bridal boutique to avoid feeling overwhelmed. In the same way, decide what type of style, fabrics, and details you’d like to avoid. Maybe you love the long sleeve look but also know you will not be able to wear those long sleeves because your wedding is in July – these details are great to make note of as well. Once an overall image is decided upon, you can use your new-found inspiration to hit the ground running in the hunt for your dream dress.

It Takes a (Small) Village.

If one thing can be learned from years of watching wedding shows on television, it’s that less is sometimes more. This certainly rings true when it is time for you to decide who to bring with you dress shopping. While the idea of having a large group of your closest friends and family with you may sound picturesque, a large group can often make the already challenging decision that much more difficult,

as more people often means more input. Many brides opt for bringing between two and four people with them shopping (often their mother, grandmother, sister(s), and maid of honor). Depending on how many people are able to join, extending an invitation to your future mother-in-law is often well-received and appreciated. No matter who you choose to bring with you, one thing to always keep in mind is that this is the dress you will be wearing. It is your wedding and you are the one who needs to be in love with your final decision. While it is oftentimes easier said than done, try not to let the opinion of others detour you from following your heart. Looking back on your wedding photographs with regret over not picking the gown you wanted would truly be a shame.

Keep an Open Mind.

Falling in love with a dress while standing in a fitting room is one thing, but, you also need to make sure that you will be able to enjoy yourself for the entirety of your wedding celebration. I tried on one dress in particular that was stunning, I truly thought that I had found The One. However, upon trying to sit down I quickly realized that I could hardly breathe and enjoying our wedding cupcakes would have been nearly impossible. Think about your wedding and find a dress that fits accordingly. Are you planning on dancing until your venue turns the lights off? Perhaps a gown with yards upon yards of additional fabric weighing you down is a bad idea. Or are you saying “I do!” on the beach? Seek out a dress that is lightweight and airy. A great alternative is to choose two dresses. One for the ceremony and one for the reception. It’s your celebration, you can change gowns if you want to…or not! With thousands of options available, finding a dress (or dresses) that make you feel beautiful, while still enjoying your wedding day festivities is a must and absolutely possible.

Timing is Everything.

Give yourself plenty of time to find your gown. After all, it took you until this moment to find The One to marry, why settle for a dress that isn’t perfection? We suggest giving yourself at least ten months prior to your wedding to purchase a dress. By doing so, you ensure ample time for your gown to arrive and schedule any necessary alterations in order to make your dream dress a reality. Allow yourself the opportunity to appreciate each new chapter that accompanies this special time prior to your wedding. Enjoy the celebratory showers and parties that are thrown in your honor and soak up the love that will surround you during your engagement. Try not to let the anxiety of finding a gown overshadow these joyous moments. With a minimum of ten months, you ensure that you have given yourself enough time to find the perfect dress without experiencing buyer’s remorse that often goes along with rushing a purchase.

Highlight You.

For most of us, our wedding day will be our most photographed day. With that in mind, it’s of the utmost importance that you are in love with the way you look in your dress. Wedding gowns come in a variety of materials, cuts, colors, sizes, and designs for a reason; no two brides are exactly alike. What might appear off-putting on the hanger may fit like a dream once you try it on. Think of finding a dress like its very own chapter in your wedding book. Go into this chapter with an open mind and an open heart to ensure that you are giving yourself every opportunity to fall in love. It is also advised to purchase a dress that fits your current figure and not a goal that you have set for yourself. While many

couples like to use their wedding as motivation to revamp their eating and exercise habits, there is no reason to put extra pressure on yourself to squeeze into a dress that is two sizes too small. Planning a wedding can be stressful enough, why add the stress of weight loss into the mix? Never let your beauty be defined by a number. Tags are sewn into the inside of our garments for a reason, so no one else needs to know.

The glow that radiates from a bride on her wedding day has nothing to do with the price of the gown, the designer, the size and style, or even how long it took to decide on the dress. The reason brides are so beautiful on their wedding day stems from the confidence they carry as they walk down the aisle. Confidence in your dress decision brings you one step closer to your “Happily Ever After”.

Written by Lauren Beers

What I Learned about Myself While Dress Shopping

If there’s any one wedding planning moment made iconic by pop culture, it’s saying yes to your wedding dress. And whether you have been dreaming about your perfect bridal gown since the good ol’ days of middle school, or are diving into the bridal boutique deep end totally blind, shopping for the dress you’ll wear on what’s arguably the most photographed day of your life comes with a fair amount of pressure and vulnerability. Especially if you’re not used to seamstresses seeing you in your underwear.

As it turns out, I learned a lot about myself while shopping for my wedding dress. Or, at the very least, I had some long-held suspicions about myself confirmed, once and for all. And if you can learn anything from my mistakes, successes, and general confusion, then it’s definitely worth sharing every moment of my self-revelation. Here are five things I learned about myself while shopping for my wedding dress.

I Had No Idea What Dress Shopping Actually Was.

In the year leading up to getting engaged and shopping for my wedding dress, I was living in a 600-square foot studio off Chicago’s Belmont Red Line stop, with a television only slightly bigger than the iPhone X and no cable. Reality television shows dedicated to bridal fashion were not a part of my regularly scheduled programming. I am also the kind of gal who tends to know my exact size in everything, in the approximately three clothing stores that supply my entire wardrobe, and therefore almost never try anything on before buying it. As such, prior to wedding dress shopping, it was entirely lost on me that I would be expected to take off the clothing I had arrived in and adorn myself in massive amounts of white lace, satin, and organza. I expected to sit, maybe sip champagne, and point at things while some fairy god-seamstress magically estimated my exact dimensions by glancing at me out of the corner of her eye. Then, in 6 to 12 weeks, I’d return and pick up my perfectly-tailored dress, which I would slip into for the first time on the morning of my wedding. For anyone with similarly misguided expectations, this is precisely not how it works.

I Care About Comfort More Than I Thought.

If there were ever a day to sacrifice comfort for fashion, I imagined my wedding day would be it. Then I discovered: not so much. With minimal exception, the wedding dresses I tried on could have taken me down the aisle and then right back home to bed. As it turns out, I gravitated towards wedding dresses that shared a surprising number of qualities with my favorite comforter. Don’t underestimate the power of a super comfortable wedding dress — and, believe it or not, you do not have to sacrifice style for comfort. Seriously, I promise! Don’t forget that you’re going to be spending a really long time (think: sun up to sun down) in your dress. Dancing, eating, hugging endless numbers of people, taking hundreds of beautiful photographs. You will want to be comfortable.

I Am Not A Cryer – At Least, Not A Fashion-Inspired Cryer.

As oblivious as I was to the actual logistics of wedding dress shopping, there was one cliché that was well ingrained in my mind and, I’m sure, is equally-ingrained in the mind of every wedding-planning bride. When you find THE ONE (the one dress, that is) you will cry. Whether that crying looks like some tastefully tear-filled eye ducts or full-on sobbing into your tulle, crying is to be expected. If you do not cry, you must not have found THE ONE. That was simply not true for me. This narrative lasted for the exact amount of time it took to try on a single dress. Standing in front of the full-length mirror, I thought: “Hey, I actually look good! Let’s do this again!” I scampered back to my dressing room to try on a second dress. Upon returning to the full-length mirror, I found myself thinking: “Hey, that’s kind of flattering! Maybe this isn’t so bad after all.” Upon evaluating the third dress: “Huh. I look pretty good. Again, so, fourth dress, then?” while beginning to wonder how long this was all going to go on. Without a tear in sight, I settled on the fifth dress, because that was not only the exact number of dresses I had the patience to try on, but also because five had been my grandfather’s lucky number and I liked him. The moral of this story is, whether you try on two dresses or two hundred, love them all or struggle to find one that speaks directly to your bridal spirit, if you do not cry, do not despair. Knowing you have found the dress for you is not determined by how many tears you cry, but by how rockin’ you look in it. And believe me: you’re rockin’.

I Get Confused When Other People Cry Over Fashion.

Unlike my own tear-free eyeballs, the three people I invited to watch me parade around in white organza all afternoon were beside themselves. From subtle sniffles to mascara rivers, each of the dresses I tried on was met with the same level of awe, enthusiasm, and tears. Now, don’t get me wrong, having people stare at you and tell you you’re so beautiful they are inspired to cry is enormously flattering. It should probably happen more often than it does in a woman’s lifetime. But it in no way gave me any indication whether one perfectly great-looking dress was any better than the next perfectly great looking dress. If you anticipate you’ll be an indecisive bride, make sure you bring at least one level-headed gal pal along for concrete feedback.

I Should Have Substituted All That Pre-Wedding Pilates for Pre-Wedding Weight Lifting.

Anyone who has never spent much time around wedding dresses before might be shocked to know how much a little lace, tulle, and bedazzlement can actually weigh. The answer is somewhere between the weight of a small dog and that of the first car you bought after getting your driver’s license. If you’ve been living off kale and lemon water for the last six months, under the mistaken assumption that there’s one perfect dress size all brides must meet before walking down the aisle, you might find yourself weakened and staggering under the weight of your dream dress instead. While we’re surrounded by all kinds of stories about wedding day dieting, my number one piece of advice to every dress seeking bride is to throw out those diet books and do whatever makes you feel your strongest, your happiest, your healthiest, and your most beautiful – inside and out. But honestly, adding a little pre-wedding strength training never hurt anyone.

Written by E. Ce Miller