It’s important to establish a healthy regimen for your skin, hair and nails well before the invites drop in the mail. Eating healthy and drinking lots of water is a great way to start working on your glow. Quality cleansers, moisturizers and serums are key to achieving the fresh face you want for all of those important wedding events and photos. With so many products on the market, it can get overwhelming. So we’ve consulted with some of Chicago’s most skilled wedding professionals to come up with a few suggestions to help get you started.

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Written by Stephanie Seija | Photography by Jana Blue Photography

While food is a central part of every wedding celebration, there are no rules that say you must offer the traditional plated meal or buffet. Many couples are beginning to reimagine the ways they can serve the meal, heightening the drama and creativity as well as being mindful of safety protocols as they offer a delicious culinary experience for their guests.

New ideas for serving your spread may be necessary now, but those that are delightful and surprising are likely to endure. After all, isn’t the way to anyone’s heart through their stomach? Featuring unique food displays is just one approach to make your event an unforgettable affair.

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Photography: Edward Fox Photography & Video

We love cake – pure and simple. We especially love the classic all-white wedding cakes, like the ones featured below!

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From the planner & stylist…

Our goal was to show off the dramatic elements of the venue by highlighting them in a unique diamond shaped set up adorned perfectly with elegant gold and white decor to further enhance the design. Small hints of blue surfaced throughout the design to tie into the deep blue hues of the space.

– TIONNA VAN GUNDY, WEDDING PLANNER AND CEO, WEDICITY WEDDING DAY DETAILING

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The Team

PLANNER/STYLIST: Bweddings Chicago
FLORAL & DÉCOR: Blush Blooms & Co.
CAKE & SWEETS: Delish Cakes
ART, STATIONERY & AISLE RUNNER: MAXE Designs
RENTALS: Elegant Presentations
VENUE: Ravinia Festival Levy Restaurants
PHOTOGRAPHY: Jasko Omerovic Photography

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Written by Emily Conley | Photography by Photography by Lauryn

You’ve got invitation questions, and we have answers! These days we don’t send or receive formal invitations often, so it can be confusing knowing how to address them, how to word the invite itself and who to include in the address. But etiquette matters: your wedding invitations generally set the tone and expectations for your big day, so you want to get it right. Read on to find out exactly what to do and what to avoid.

WHEN DO I SEND MY INVITATIONS?

Choosing the correct time to send your invitations is critical. You want enough time between sending the save the date and the invitation that people can make plans, but not so early that they forget or discard the invite.

We recommend sending your save the dates (and yes, you do need to send those) about four months before your wedding date. This gives everyone enough time to block off your wedding day in their calendar and make necessary arrangements. Once the save the dates are sent, you can wait to send your formal invitation until about eight weeks before your wedding.

There are some extenuating circumstances that would change your invitation timeline a bit. If you’re having a destination wedding, you should send your invitations earlier.

We suggest sending out your save the dates nine to 12 months in advance for an international destination and six to eight months in advance for a domestic destination. Your formal invitation will also go out earlier — three to four months before your wedding date.

If you send someone a save the date, they should always receive a formal invitation. Because save the dates go out significantly earlier than your wedding day, if you think there’s a possibility you won’t want to invite someone once it’s close to the event, don’t send them a save the date. You can always send a formal invitation to someone who didn’t receive a save the date, but make sure to invite everyone who received a save the date.

WHEN SHOULD WE SET THE RSVP DEADLINE?

The RSVP, or répondez s’il vous plaît (which translates to “respond, please”), is an important part of your invitations. Whether people mail physical RSVPs or respond online, you’ll need to set up a clear and easy way for guests to let you know if they will attend your big day or not.

We suggest giving guests roughly four weeks to respond. You need to allow some extra time, as some guests will be late or forget to RSVP. While it would be great if every single wedding guest responded on time, it’s not the norm. The location of your wedding and of your wedding guests will influence the RSVP deadline as well. If your wedding is in your hometown and most of your guests are local, you can extend the RSVP deadline a bit longer, asking guests to respond within at least two weeks of your wedding date. The goal is to get as accurate a headcount as possible, so waiting until closer to the actual wedding date should help you encounter fewer changed plans.

And if you’re having a destination wedding? Give guests at least eight weeks to respond and make their travel arrangements. If you send your formal invitations four months before your destination wedding, your RSVPs would be due about two months before the wedding date. It’s not likely that people would make or change international or extensive travel plans at that time.

If just reading about RSVP deadlines and imagining having to chase down your guests for a response makes you anxious, you may want to get help. Some stationery companies provide RSVP tracking as part of their services, and many wedding planners will also include this service. And if you’re working with a travel advisor to plan your destination wedding, ask if they also track RSVPs. Knowing you have someone who will stay on top of all responses can take a huge weight off your shoulders.

HOW DO WE WORD OUR INVITATIONS?

This question is one of the most researched wedding planning questions out there! The formality of wedding invitations can feel overwhelming, especially when most invitations we get these days are sent online. But getting the wording right matters. Your formal invites set the tone for your wedding and show guests what to expect.

The beauty of modern wedding invitations is that you aren’t obligated to one, standard format. The best guideline is to match your invitation wording (and design) to the tone of your wedding and your personalities. Being a little creative and personalizing the wording on your invitations will help your invitation stand out.

Many people still follow the traditional wording when it comes to writing their wedding invitations for a ceremony that is held in a church, temple or place of worship. This tradition dictates that “request the honor of your presence” is reserved for weddings held in places of worship, while “request the pleasure of your company” is saved for weddings in non- religious venues.

When it comes to wording the host of the wedding, there are many options available. You and your partner should choose how to include parents for your unique situation. If one partner’s parents are paying for the wedding, it’s standard practice to use a phrase like: “Mr. and Mrs. Last Name request the honor of your presence…” If all parties — both sets of parents and the couple — are contributing, then a more inclusive “Together with their parents” is appropriate. If the couple is hosting the wedding themselves, they can choose to forego a “host” line altogether. At the end of the day, the invitation should reflect what you and your partner want, so if that means honoring all parents, even if only one side or neither are paying for the wedding, you can do that.

When wording your invitations, make sure the information is clear and easy to understand. Include the names of the people getting married, the location(s), and the time and date of the ceremony. There are other small details to reference, too. When referring to guests on your invitation, you can choose to use “they” or “their” to be more inclusive than “his” or “her.” Remember to be intentional and considerate with your words.

And if you opted for an elopement or very intimate wedding, you will probably want to send out wedding announcements to formally share the news with your friends and family. An announcement should include the date and location of the elopement. These announcements can be formal — “We’re honored to announce the marriage of Name and Name on Date in Location” — or more relaxed, “We did it! Name and Name tied the knot on Date in Location.” Pick the wording style that feels the most authentic to you and reflects the nature of your elopement or intimate ceremony.

WHERE SHOULD WE LIST OUR WEDDING WEBSITE?

It’s a good idea to include your wedding website on your save the date, as it will give guests a better idea of what to expect, how to plan and what to buy from your registry. They will have more time to peruse the information on the site and make appropriate travel plans. You can also include the website on your invitation, but this probably isn’t the best choice if you’re opting for traditional or formal invitations.

To include your wedding website without directly printing it on your formal invitation, consider including a “details” card along with the invitation. This can also feature any other important details you want your guests to be aware of. Just make sure you don’t ever list your wedding registry on your save the date or invitation. The registry links are best saved for your wedding website. You can also share the links with your wedding party and ask them to share it with anyone who asks for registry or gift details.

WE’RE NOT INVITING KIDS TO OUR WEDDING. HOW DO WE MAKE THIS CLEAR?

Hosting an adults-only wedding or reception can feel complicated, but if you follow these basic instructions, you should be able to communicate your wishes to your guests without ruffling any feathers.

The first, and best, indication of who is invited is on the invitation itself. Be very clear and explicit when addressing your invitations. Don’t list children’s names or “The Last Name Family” if you don’t want the whole family to attend.

You should also clearly state on your wedding website that the ceremony, reception or entire wedding will be adults-only. You don’t have to explain your reasoning or make excuses — if this is how you envision your wedding, that’s all you need to say. If you want to go the extra mile, you can include convenient babysitting information or other childcare details on your wedding site. You can always point this out to guests with a note — “Babysitter info can be found here, so you can relax and enjoy celebrating with us while your kiddos are well cared for.”

If, despite your careful attention to detail, someone RSVPs and includes a child by name or in the guest count, call or text to kindly let them know that your event is for adults only. This is also a great task for a best man or maid of honor! It’s your wedding, so don’t feel pressured to invite kids if you’d rather they not be present.

WE HAVE A SPECIFIC DRESS CODE. HOW DO WE TELL OUR GUESTS?

If you are implementing or requesting a specific dress code, you should clearly state it on the wedding invitation in the lower left corner. You can also explicitly state the dress code on the “details” card. While the style of your wedding invitations should clue guests in to the expected level of formal dress expected, you’ll want to communicate the expected dress code clearly and in more than one place if you want people to follow your request.

Try listing the dress code, along with examples of what attire is included, on your wedding website. Include detailed lists of “do” and “don’t” options, along with photos to make it even easier. Commonly used dress codes include: black-tie, black-tie optional, cocktail and dressy casual.

When choosing a dress code for your big day, consider the location, season and weather. If you’re having an all outdoor affair in the summer, black-tie might not be the most comfortable choice for your guests. If you’re worried a friend or family member will show up dressed inappropriately, have someone talk to them before your wedding day. If it’s a family member, one of your parents should be able to address the concern. If it’s a friend, a member of the bridal party who knows them might be the best choice.

HOW DO I ADDRESS AN INVITATION TO SOMEONE WHO IDENTIFIES AS GENDER NEUTRAL?

It’s important to be mindful of personal preference and identity when addressing invitations. The first step is to ask people for their pronouns when collecting address info, especially if the guest isn’t someone you’re close to. Asking for pronoun information up front will help you avoid any unintended offenses or incorrect assumptions when addressing your invitations.

For guests who identify as gender neutral, non-binary or gender-fluid, you can use the prefix Mx. (pronounced “mix”) just as you would use Mr. or Mrs. If you’re in a situation where you are unsure and unable to verify their preference, simply use a guest’s first and last name without a prefix. Also note, the non-heteronormative format for addresses lists names in alphabetical order instead of male-first.

The key here is to be intentional and considerate with your invitations. You want to make sure each invited guest feels respected and appreciated. Simply asking shows that you care.

DO WE NEED TO USE SPECIFIC STAMPS ON OUR WEDDING INVITATIONS?

While there’s not a required “wedding invitation” stamp, there are some things you can do to make sure your invitations are delivered. Make sure you weigh the envelopes before addressing, as most invitations will require more than the typical single postage stamp. Once you know how much the required postage will be, make sure you set aside any international invitations, as those will need to be stamped separately.

Any stamp in the necessary amount will get your invitation delivered, but you might want to take a little extra effort to choose aesthetically pleasing stamps. Post offices sell wedding stamps with hearts, flowers and other pretty designs, or you can order monogrammed or personalized stamps online! Check with your stationery designer to see if they offer custom stamps as well. It’s those small little details that set your wedding apart, even on your envelopes.

Start the search: Find your Chicago area invitation and stationery vendor here.

From the planner & stylist…

Emily’s personal style was elevated in her unexpected-done-well design choices marrying Boho, modern industrial and vintage details. Add her handsome groom, Jared, in a black tux and we had a wedding that will stand the test of time!

– KELLY DELAMATER, OWNER, BACKYARD SOIRÉE WEDDINGS AND EVENTS

Vendor List

EVENT PLANNER: Backyard Soirée Weddings and Events
PHOTOGRAPHY: Mariscal Photography
VENUE: The Standard
BRIDE’S DRESS: Aisle Chic
STATIONERY/INVITATIONS: Amore Creative
CALLIGRAPHY: Shannon Sutton
FLORAL & DÉCOR: London Avenue Designs
LINENS: Event Floral
LIGHTING: Luxe Productions
RENTALS: A La Carte
CATERING: Abreo
CAKE & SWEETS: Julie Michelle Cakes

Written by E. Ce Miller | Photography by Jana Blue Photography

It’s your first trip as a married couple and it can provide blissful memories that you will treasure for years to come. However, with the rush and stress of planning your big day, your honeymoon may not seem like a priority. You may be overwhelmed with deciding on a destination, your paid time off may be running low, not to mention your budget may be stretched thin with wedding bills. But don’t let that hinder you. You won’t get another chance to honeymoon! Here are a few suggestions to suit all different interests and budgets.

And – consult our honeymoon professionals here!

BEACH BUMS

Tropical honeymoons are always in style. It’s the ideal setting to unwind, soak up some sun and focus on one another.

Mexico’s vast array of all-inclusive hotels offer great value. For something more exotic, Indonesia, Costa Rica, Greece or the Caribbean may be more your speed. Or if budget isn’t an issue, look at those amazing overwater bungalows in Fiji or Bora Bora! Now’s the time to enjoy a dreamy vacation when it commemorates such a special occasion.

If you prefer to stay domestic, you can relax by the ocean at one of the many beautiful beaches and lovely hotels Florida and California have to offer. If you are bored by the beach, consider activities like whale watching (great in Los Cabos, Mexico), swimming with dolphins (Hawaii) or snorkeling. If you’re a foodie, check out a resort where you will find dining experiences that focus on locally-inspired creations.

ADVENTURE SEEKERS

You don’t have to travel much past your backyard to be adventurous stateside. Lace up your hiking boots, venture to any of our 63 national parks and explore miles of scenic trails. If you prefer lake views over ocean panoramas, the Midwest is a hidden treasure of small town resorts, boating and outdoor adventure, with beautiful, rustic cabins, waterfalls and nature.

Or, if you like wine and picturesque landscapes, the West Coast is for you. California’s gorgeous Wine Country includes more than 800 wineries in the northern San Francisco Bay area, which covers both Napa Valley and Sonoma Valley. Book a comfortable stay at a nearby bed and breakfast after indulging in the offerings of one — or several — of the region’s wineries.

If it’s domestic culture you’re seeking, go eastbound to absorb the charms of our original 13 colonies and their historical cities, which are ripe with metropolitan life, upscale shopping, amazing seafood, museums and more. If you navigate further south, toward South Carolina and Florida, you’ll be inundated with majestic oaks, lush golf courses and sandy beaches.

THE ROMANTICS

Get swept up in the history and old- world charm of Europe. You can’t go wrong with Paris, Rome, Venice or Prague, but there’s an abundance of hidden gems that also deserve some love. For the best of both worlds, try a river cruise that docks in large metropolitan areas, while also letting you explore lesser known, but equally beautiful cities and towns. Or travel the rails with a Eurail pass, where you can hop between 33 countries, exploring each on your own timeline. Keep in mind that some countries may have COVID testing or vaccination requirements and additional testing requirements to re-enter the U.S.

You don’t need money to make memories. If finances are an issue, plan a trip close to home. Spend a few days at a quaint, little inn or enjoy one of the many resort spas nearby. You have the rest of your lives to travel — what matters now is fully enjoying one another’s company.

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Packing Tips for Your Trip

Packing for your honeymoon may not be a priority with so many other things happening in the days leading up to your wedding. However, it’s worth it to think ahead and pick up a few key items to make the most of your first trip as a wedded couple.

Above, clockwise starting in top left:

1. Honeymoon Vibes Canvas Tote by Things Remembered
2. Kiehl’s Activated Sun Protector™️ Water-Light Lotion For Face & Body
3. Kate Spade Miss to Mrs. Luggage Tag
4. Farmacy Beauty Honeymoon Glow Resurfacing Serum
5. Sydney Sunglasses by Toms

Chicago’s culinary scene is unmatched and attracts some of the world’s top chefs. By pairing a sincere passion for food with pure talent, these Chicago culinary artists are sure to elevate your wedding day meal. Not only will you be served a work of art, but your guests will also talk about the delectable meal for years to come.

Mick Verheyen
Executive Chef, Belvedere Events & Banquets, Biagio Events & Catering

Chef Mick comes to Biagio Events with 40 years of culinary experience. After six years as the Chef de Cuisine at the InterContinental Chicago, he joined the Wolfgang Puck Restaurant team and opened the Wolfgang Puck Grand Cafe in Evanston where he was Executive Chef for seven years as well as a key member of the Puck Culinary Council. Chef Mick has also overseen kitchens at such notable establishments as Gibsons Steakhouse and McCormick & Schmick’s before bringing his talents to Biagio’s Events & Catering and Belvedere Events & Banquets.

Dish: This salmon is pan-seared perfectly and presented with fingerling potatoes, artichokes and broccolini.

Cedric Harden
Executive Chef, River Roast

Chef Cedric Harden leads the culinary program at River Roast in Chicago. Growing up in a family with deep Southern roots, Harden’s passion for food was sparked at a very early age. Harden studied culinary arts at the Le Cordon Bleu Institute of Chicago and has worked in kitchens at Joey’s Brickhouse, Le Lan, SOUL and Wolfgang Puck Catering, plus a seven-year tenure as sous chef at Urbanbelly, Belly Shack and BellyQ. Prior to joining River Roast, he served as executive chef at III Forks Steakhouse, where he brought a Southern spin to classic Midwest American Steakhouse fare.

Dish: Hors d’oeuvres are reimagined with tomato soup shooters and mini grilled cheeses; grilled Korean-style short rib skewers, mini Maryland crab cakes with tartar sauce; bacon wrapped dates with goat cheese and tempura shrimp skewers with Firecracker Sauce.

Zachery Rogers
Executive Chef, Elements at Water Street

Zachery Rogers comes from a family of talented Southern cooks in Athens, Georgia. Zac began his culinary career at 15. Graduating with honors, he earned an associate degree in the culinary arts from Le Cordon Bleu Atlanta. He moved to Chicago to cook for the Four Seasons Hotel Chicago, a Forbes Five-Star and AAA Five-Diamond award-winning hotel property, and helped the hotel’s fine-dining restaurant, Seasons, earn its first-ever Michelin Star. He later became Executive Sous Chef at Chef by Request Catering in Lisle before joining Elements at Water Street in 2017. Since opening, Chef Zac and the Elements team have been delivering restaurant quality food in a banquet setting to Five-Star reviews.

Dish: A young chicken roulade is prepared alongside fresh broccoli rapini and handcut pappardelle pasta served in a sweety drop pepper pesto with crispy prosciutto.

Kenneth Regan
Executive Chef, The Odyssey

Leading the innovative culinary team at The Odyssey is award-winning Executive Chef Kenneth Regan. A graduate of The Cooking and Hospitality Institute of Chicago, Chef Ken brings his love and passion for seasonal and local ingredients to The Odyssey. Chef Ken sources only the best and freshest local ingredients, saying, “The goal is to cook as you would for your family.” A seasoned talent with extensive experience in the culinary field, Chef Kenneth Regan is committed to delivering great food and service to every guest that walks through our doors.

Dish: Beef osso bucco served a top creamy mashed potatoes and roasted carrots pleases the palette.

Bruno Bell Alves
Executive Chef, Jewell Events Catering

Chef Bruno is an esteemed culinary professional with an extensive background as a pastry chef. He was born in Brazil and received formal training at Le Cordon Bleu in Paris. After leaving his position as Executive Pastry Chef at Jewell a few years ago to pursue positions at other respected organizations, he has returned to Jewell as the Executive Chef. His unique background affords him a level of creativity rarely seen in the culinary field. Chef Bruno enjoys reinventing classic dishes, transforming them into unforgettable cuisine.

Dish: A stunning work of culinary art, this elderflower whipped ganache is served with a citrus sponge and topped with oatmeal streusel and meringue.

Dominique LeBlanc Beers
Executive Chef, The Metropolitan

Chef Dominique has had a passion for food her whole life. She received a bachelor’s degree in Culinary Arts from the Culinary Institute of America and a master of science in Hospitality and Tourism Management from Purdue University. Prior to joining the ClubCorp family, Chef Dominique worked for White Lodging at the Marriott in Indianapolis and Omni Hotels & Resorts in Indianapolis and Chicago. Her food philosophy is centered around honoring the ingredients and making fun, approachable food that excites the palate and awakens the senses. She believes it’s important to have strong relationships with farmers and producers, and to utilize food that is grown sustainably.

Dish: Honey and goat cheese complement each other perfectly in this delightful cheesecake featuring a quinoa oat crumb crust.

Dan Casey
Executive Chef, Mistwood Golf Club

Chef Dan graduated from Le Cordon Bleu College of Culinary Arts in Chicago and has over 16 years of professional experience. He joined the culinary team at Mistwood in 2016 after working for Four Seasons Hotels and Resorts at the Ritz Carlton Chicago, where he received a Michelin Bib Gourmand. He has also worked for Caesar’s Entertainment at Harrah’s Joliet and Walt Disney World Resort. “I like to think I have a child’s perspective on our industry, and I get excited about the small things that are done really well. That reminds the people around me to look at everything with a fresh set of eyes, allow creativity to happen and not be afraid to take chances while having fun.”

Dish: Prepared to perfection, this roasted leg of lamb is paired with feta cheese aligot potatoes, and served with caramelized shallots and a colorful tomato vinaigrette.

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The Team

PLANNER/STYLIST: Wedicity Wedding Day Detailing
FLORAL & DÉCOR: Floral Expressions & Gifts
CAKE: Creative Cakes Bakery
ART, STATIONERY & SIGNAGE: MAXE Designs
LINENS & CHARGERS: BBJ Linen
RENTALS: Marquee Event Rentals
VENUE: Wildman BT
PHOTOGRAPHY: Emma Belen Photography

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Written by Christina Oddo | Photography by Marc & Mindy

Let’s be honest for a second — you’re probably realizing that weddings are expensive. Once you’ve finished booking all your vendors and get brave enough to take a peek at the grand total, you’ll see that final number, and it’s enough to set your head spinning. At that point, it’s natural to start making cuts: scale back the flowers, change the string quartet to a solo violinist, maybe scrap the butterfly release because it’s probably inhumane anyway. You keep going down your list and trimming things, and then you get to your videographer and you pause. Well, you think to yourself, a video would be amazing, but I already have a photographer… is a videographer really necessary? The answer is “yes,” and here are nine reasons why no wedding is complete without one.

1. WEDDING VIDEOS HAVE COME A LONG WAY.
   Your parents’ wedding video might have a security tape vibe, but wedding videos today are practically works of art. Think beautiful shots of you gliding down the aisle and slow motion panoramas of your guests’ hair whipping at the reception, all to the tune of your favorite songs. It’s like starring in your very own movie trailer, and we promise you won’t be able to stop watching it.
2. FILM CAPTURES EMOTIONAL MOMENTS IN THEIR ENTIRETY.
   Looking your best friend in the eyes and saying “I do” is one of the most beautiful things you’ll ever get to experience, so why wouldn’t you want to watch it again and again? Sure, you’ll have pictures of the moment — a shot of you both smiling, a shot of you leaning toward each other, a shot of you kissing — but being able to relive your “I do” exactly as it happened, instead of in fragments, is priceless. Same thing goes for your first look. Getting to watch all the excitement and emotion play across your faces when you see each other for the first time is something only a video can deliver. If your entire day seemed to fly by in a blur, don’t feel bad—you can watch it from start to finish and treasure all the great moments.
3. VIDEOGRAPHY PRESERVES THE SOUNDS OF YOUR CELEBRATION.
   The vows. The music. The toasts. The laughter. When it comes to weddings, the sights and the sounds are equally important, and capturing the day on video makes sure all that amazing auditory content goes down in history just for you. Great videographers are wizards when it comes to the editing process, so expect your video to be chock-full of beautiful sound bites directly from you, your new spouse and your loved ones.

4. WEDDING VIDEOS ARE A DIGITAL GUEST BOOK.
   Which is better: Watching a five-second clip of your younger brother doing the worm in the middle of the dance floor at your reception, or reading “Congrats on your wedding, big sis!” in your guestbook? Unless he splits his pants during the dance, most people would choose option A. Nobody ever really knows what to write in a guestbook, but they do know how to get down on the dance floor. Your videographer can pair shots of your guests letting loose with short, heartfelt quotes from them and voila, you have well-wishes that actually mean something, and a visual reminder of the friends and family who shared your special day.
5. YOUR VIDEOGRAPHER AND PHOTOGRAPHER WORK TOGETHER TO CATCH ALL THE MOMENTS YOU MISS.
   It’s impossible to see everything that happens at your wedding because you’re busy, you know, getting married. You might be too wrapped up in sealing your “I do” with a kiss to see your grandma tearing up in the crowd, but it’s your videographer’s job to grab those beautiful little moments. Having professionals there is like hiring an all-seeing eye, and between your videographer and photographer, you’ll be able to experience all the moments you missed while you were floating on cloud nine.

6. IT’S GREAT FOR GUESTS WHO COULDN’T MAKE IT.
   In a perfect world, everyone you invite to your wedding would be able to make it, but unfortunately, that’s just not the case. Kids get sick, flights get canceled and some of your loved ones aren’t able to show up for your big day. You can have them Skype or Zoom during the ceremony and you can send out a bunch of pictures after the fact, but there’s no way for them to really experience your wedding. Unless, of course, you’ve captured the day on video. With one quick click, guests who couldn’t celebrate in person can relive the highlights and feel a little less left out. It’s so simple to share a video link with anyone and so fun for them to watch.
7. IT’S PERFECT FOR ANNIVERSARY TRADITIONS.
   Curling up on your couch with your spouse and flipping through your photo album is cozy and sweet, but pulling up your wedding video and watching yourselves say “I do” is next-level romantic. Whether it’s something that you watch whenever you feel like it or it becomes your anniversary tradition, your wedding video is something that will have you falling in love over and over again. And it’s so much easier than the ‘old days’ of firing up the VCR or popping in a DVD — your video can live in the cloud or on your laptop for easy access.
8. GET YOUR MONEY’S WORTH.
   Like we said at the beginning, weddings can be pricey. If you’re going to shell out thousands of dollars to make your big day picture perfect, why wouldn’t you want to document it as much as you possibly can? Imagine getting an expensive mani-pedi and not sending snapchats to your friends. It’s practically unthinkable. The same concept applies to hiring a videographer for your wedding, only on a much larger scale. Capturing your wedding on film is making the most of your wedding investment.
9. YOU DON’T WANT ANY REGRETS.
   There are definitely wedding elements that you can live without, but a videographer isn’t one of them. It might feel like an extra cost, but we promise that paying for a wedding video is worth every penny. We’ve talked to many brides who decided to skip hiring a videographer and ended up regretting it a few weeks after the fact. So, if you’re on the fence about wedding videos, try and think long term. It’ll be the closest thing to reliving one of the most special days in your life.

WEDDING DAY GENERAL TIMELINE

For both your videographer and photographer, you absolutely need to have a clear and reasonable timeline detailing what you are doing from the time you wake up until you leave your reception. You also need someone who will help you stick to your timeline and make sure everything else is moving along. Our experts love when couples have a wedding planner or event coordinator because the day inevitably runs more smoothly and is more enjoyable for everyone. Furthermore, decide far ahead of time if you want to do a first look because having one (or not) can dramatically affect your day-of schedule.

Your wedding day should never feel like an eight-hour photoshoot, but without a clear schedule and an event planner to keep everything on track, it very well may feel like you are scrambling all day to get all the photo and video you hoped for in. If you do not have a clear point person, your vendors usually end up trying to direct everyone and fielding questions they don’t have the answers to. You are paying to capture your big day, so make sure they aren’t distracted with trying to also act as a day-of coordinator. They aren’t going to do a good job at that, and your photos and video will not be the product you hoped and paid for.

In addition to your first look, make sure your photographer and videographer capture these moments:

• Getting ready: The candid nature of this special time makes for some of the best pictures of the day. Make sure the space you use is clean of clutter and trash. Ask someone in your bridal party to be in charge of ensuring the room is photo-ready.
• Bride and groom portraits: Whether you opt for a first look or not, bride and groom portraits are an opportunity for you to spend some one-on-one time with your partner. Taking these shots alone can also help you feel more relaxed and willing to engage in the intimate moments that often make. for the sweetest footage.
• Details: Think about your centerpieces, table numbers, any special signage and all the other small details you want to remember for years to come. Don’t forget to bring an extra invitation suite with you so your videographer can get sweeping shots of your stationery as well. Detail shots are perfect for the start of your wedding video.
• Ceremony: Let your videographer know how long the ceremony is going to last, to be in place for each moment accordingly.
• First kiss: Hold that sweet kiss a bit so that it can be captured on film.
• Family and friends: Give your wedding coordinator a list of family members’ names, and their relationship to you or your partner, so he or she can make sure everyone is accounted for.
• Reception: Give your videographer a timeline of anything special happening during the reception — from first dances to toasts to bouquet tosses — so he or she can make sure to be in the right place at the right time to capture all those meaningful moments.

Start the search: find your Chicago area videographer here.

Written by Stephanie Seija | Photography by Photography by Lauryn

When you begin the wedding planning process, one of the first things you’ll need to nail down is your aesthetic — the vibe, style and feel you want your day to exude. Since this is the first big event you will host together as a couple, it’s the time to let your personalities truly shine in front of your friends and family. It’s hard to move forward in your planning without a sense of the look you’re trying to achieve. But in a world chock-full of color palettes and visual inspiration, it can become overwhelming. How will you decide which aesthetic is meant for you? And once you’ve chosen your perfect vibe, where do you go from there? There are plenty of ways to incorporate that vision into the different aspects of your day. Here are a few things to consider in order to plan an aesthetic that is cohesive and “on brand” from start to finish.

GET INSPIRED

First things first, gather inspiration. The right aesthetic for your big day will be a reflection of what you and your partner are naturally drawn to. There are countless possibilities when it comes to aesthetic, so your first step will be to narrow the playing field. Identify the elements that consistently catch your eye. When you scroll through Pinterest, do you notice any patterns among the kinds of photos you’re always pinning? What have you really loved (or really not loved) about the vibe of other weddings you’ve attended? When you flip through wedding magazines, what are some repeated elements that your favorite details have in common?

Start capturing screen shots of colors and patterns you like, whether it’s from a friend’s Instagram post or online shopping. And then go ahead — rip pages out of those catalogs or magazines if you are loving a featured pattern or certain style. As you add to your collection, you’ll be surprised at how quickly patterns and preferences emerge.

Make sure you are on the same page with your significant other. It’s natural to have different tastes (it’s true when they say opposites attract!) so it’s likely you may have conflicting opinions at first. Instead of letting that frustrate you, use this opportunity to work together in order to create a truly mutual vision. Even if you know that one of you will be taking the lead on most of your wedding planning decisions, agreeing on the aesthetic together will ensure a cohesive look and a happy couple. Try gathering inspiration separately first, so that you each have the freedom to pick and choose according to your instincts without judgment. Then come together and see if there are common elements that you both like.

BE SPECIFIC

Assign descriptive words to the things you like. While visual inspiration is necessary, words and phrases that set the mood can be extremely helpful as you clarify your vision. You might like “greenery” but there’s a big difference between the greenery you’d find in a tropical paradise versus an enchanted forest. Be as precise and specific as you can in just a few emotion-packed words.

Narrowing down your aesthetic not only helps you create a stunning look, but it can also reduce wedding planning stress. Limiting your options is actually helpful! A well-chosen wedding style will make the rest of your decisions a lot easier as you follow the guidelines you’ve set for yourself. The more clarity you have in your vision, the more cohesive your event will feel.

YOUR VENUE SETS THE STAGE

As you’re searching for venues, your desired aesthetic should be at the forefront of your mind. Most event spaces are not simply blank canvases — they have their own point of view and they will immediately set the tone for your aesthetic. For example, a barn with a wood-beamed ceiling and antique paint finishes is perfect for a rustic vibe, while a mansion with marble floors fits the bill for a vintage or an art deco-themed fête. For modern simplicity, a venue like an art gallery could be the perfect backdrop to highlight understated colors and natural elements. Classic romance can bloom on a lush garden lawn, while glitz and glamour will dazzle your guests in a ballroom filled with bold colors and sparkling accents. An industrial loft with exposed brick and metal rafters cultivates a “city” vibe, while an open- air veranda filled with lush fabrics and Moroccan patterns will convey boho chic. The best part? You can find all of these aesthetics throughout Chicago! Our city has so many options.

The foundation for your wedding day aesthetic rests on two things: your venue and your color palette. These two decisions go hand in hand, since every event space has its own unchangeable features that need to complement your chosen hues. You’ll need to make sure your potential venues work well with your color scheme ideas. For instance, if you’re set on featuring a bold color like pink or red, your venue should remain more neutral. Or maybe there’s a vintage hotel ballroom that you’ve been eyeing, but it includes a bold element like green carpet or patterned wallpaper. If that’s the case, you’ll have to constrain yourself a bit more as you finalize the rest of your color palette. If either a specific color or a particular venue is non-negotiable to you, start with that element and let the rest of your decisions follow. The key is to avoid visual competition between your venue and your colors, as you consider lighting, mood and style.

(Psst…Start your venue search here.)

CHOOSE A COLOR PALETTE

When it comes to finding color inspiration, a great place to start is in your own home. Take a look through your living space and notice items, materials and artwork that you particularly love. Clothes are another indication when it comes to your favorite colors — are there clear preferences as you comb through your closet? Chances are, the hues you gravitate towards for your décor and attire are the ones that represent you the best and make you feel most happy.

Color affects more than just how things look — color creates a mood. The psychology behind color is powerful, and you have the chance to tap into that in order to curate the feelings you want your guests to experience. Pastels like sky blue or lavender are soft and feminine, while reds and bright pinks are bold and full of excitement. Orange and sunny yellow communicate cheerfulness and joy, while green is peaceful and earthy. Jewel tones like emerald and violet make a statement, while classic whites and creams allow other elements to shine. As you compare color palettes, think about the mood you’d like to set for your guests.

It can be tempting to include every color you like in your final color scheme, but choosing two to four shades is best. Anything more than that can become visually confusing, and your aesthetic will lack cohesion. If that feels limiting, remember that you can always enhance your primary colors by adding a metallic accent — just use metallics sparingly for optimum effect.

SHARE YOUR VISION

You will want to be sure that you communicate your aesthetic clearly to your vendors. One way to do this is to request several fabric swatches from your bridesmaid dresses or your table linens. That way you’ll have enough to share these samples with all of your other vendors, and any color choices they have to make on their own will be informed by your precise color shade.

It’s important to ensure that your vendors are all bringing the correct shades of your color. Your linen supplier and your florist might have different definitions of pale blue, so setting the record straight prior to your celebration is key. Colors should add to the magic of your day, not take away from it, and keeping things consistent is the best way to avoid unwanted color distractions.

Create both a physical and digital inspiration board. If you have a wedding binder, that’s the perfect place for a tangible inspiration display, including real swatches and paper samples. You can even use paint samples from a home improvement store to create your own color palette! Of course, you’ll want a digital collection of inspiration pics to send in email conversations with vendors or for whenever your friends excitedly ask you about your vision. The perfect mood board includes a few real wedding detail photos, some color samples and your descriptive style name.

What if you’ve spent hours in Canva and your digital inspiration board still doesn’t feel right? Don’t forget to call upon your vendors. Your wedding consultant might have the perfect shade of pink you haven’t been able to capture. Or maybe your florist has found a specific bloom that becomes the source of your inspiration. These vendors are professionals, so let them help you!

And when your wedding colors are finalized, your vendors may be able to take some of the finer details to the next level. Little touches like having the waitstaff wear bowties that match your colors can add a layer of sophistication and consistency to your wedding that otherwise might have been missing. Your vendors may have suggestions from other events that you haven’t thought of, so it never hurts to be open to hearing different ideas.

BRANDING BEGINS WITH STATIONERY

Just like a business develops a cohesive visual style, you have the opportunity to “brand” your wedding and carry that look and feel throughout your entire event. One of the first concrete pieces of communication that guests will see is your save-the-date or invitation. Your stationery will let your friends and family know what they can expect from your wedding, so you want to represent yourself well!

Your printed pieces create an experience for your guests from the invitations to the thank-you notes. Stemming from your chosen color scheme and overall vibe, your stationery should utilize fonts, design elements and patterns that support your vision. Do beachy watercolors coordinate with your destination wedding in the tropics? Will metallic stamping and art deco accents really highlight your Roaring ‘20s theme? These same design elements can be mirrored throughout the rest of your paper products, like table numbers, ceremony programs, menu cards and more. You can have fun with them!

Did you know that monograms are for more than just fancy plush towels or robes? Many couples choose to create their very own custom monogram to use on their stationery as well as other personalized elements like cocktail napkins, gift tags and thank-you cards. You can even have your monogram printed on your dance floor or projected on a statement wall.

TELL A STORY WITH FLORAL DÉCOR

Flowers are quite literally the “centerpiece” of your décor, so it makes sense that floral design is a huge component of your wedding day aesthetic. You don’t have to be able to name every single type of flower in order to speak to your wedding’s floral vision. When you work with a great florist, they will consult with you to really understand the look you’re going for in order to translate your thoughts into beautiful pieces of art featuring the most perfect blooms.

Ceremony Flowers: Consider the bouquets and boutonnieres for you and your partner, your wedding party and your close family members. Often called “personal flowers,” these make their first appearance during the ceremony so they definitely get a lot of attention (from guests as well as from your photographer’s lens). You’ll want to think beyond just your wedding party — oftentimes the parents and grandparents of the couple also get special flowers to wear as well. It’s up to you!

The vibe for personal flowers goes beyond color — style plays a big role as well. A loosely gathered bouquet with a variety of flowers tied with long flowing fabric sets a completely different tone than a rounded, tightly- gathered bouquet of all-white roses. Some people even attach or tie vintage details to their bouquet like a hand- me-down gold locket, a grandparent’s handkerchief or another family memento. Thinking outside the box when it comes to personal flowers not only can contribute to your unique aesthetic, but it can also be a meaningful way to incorporate family heirlooms or memories into your wedding day as you walk down the aisle.

Embellishing a ceremony arch with flowers is a gorgeous way to create a swoon-worthy photo moment as you say your “I do’s.” Ask your floral designer if they can create an arch that matches your aesthetic — the base can be made of anything from metal piping to reclaimed wood. Maybe an archway isn’t your thing, and you’d prefer a collection of smaller floral elements or candles cascading down the center aisle or adorning the chairs. Don’t forget that large ceremony arrangements (along with bridesmaid bouquets) have the ability to be repurposed for the reception as centerpieces and statement décor. Simply place the bouquets in vases or arrange your archway as a sweetheart table backdrop.

Reception Florals: Table flowers at your reception are an essential part of your wedding aesthetic. Going for a traditional feel? Round tables with gorgeous blooms in the center are classic for a reason! Planning for long rectangular “feasting” tables? Greenery garlands with flowers scattered throughout are lush and romantic when interspersed with lots of candles. There is no rule that says all your tables need to be decorated the same way — alternate tall and low arrangements for a staggered effect, or embellish rectangular tables differently than your round ones. Don’t forget to add small flower arrangements (or even just a few loose blooms) to elements like your escort card table, gifts table, the bar, draped on signage or even in the restrooms. These little touches have a big impact on carrying your aesthetic throughout of your event space.

Want to go for something a bit daring and dramatic with your floral design? Try elevating your floral elements by literally elevating your flowers above the tables! You could hang a variety of cascading vertical blooms or even construct a design that features glass globes with candles hanging from the floral structures. Statement walls are also impressive if you’d like to grab your guests’ attention with a striking showstopper. These can be covered in flowers, paper elements or even a custom neon sign nestled on lush greenery. These also make great photo backdrops for your guests.

For these larger-than-life design elements, make sure your venue and your florist are all on the same page. Just because your florist is excited to hang 100 strands of flowers from the ceiling doesn’t mean your venue manager feels the same way. These elements also take a lot of time to set up, so you’ll have to make sure your florist can arrive in time to create their magic.

(Still looking for a florist? Start your search here.)

CREATE A STUNNING TABLESCAPE

Your table décor will take center stage when your guests are seated for dinner. Have you thought about how your place settings can really shine? Charger plates made of wood, glass or metal immediately take the dinner table from generic to elegant. You can also add creative touches to your tablescape like colored glass goblets, unique silverware or vintage mix-and-match china plates. Maybe you’re envisioning your tables covered in candles to create a dreamy mood. Ask your florist or rental company about different ways to display your candles, from ornate candlesticks to glass cylinders to floating in water (check with your venue coordinator if you are considering open flame candles). You can also find inspiration for table décor by browsing vintage shops or visiting a few flea markets. Not only will you find one-of- a-kind items this way, but thrifting is perfect for couples who want to make sustainable choices.

Think about other items like escort cards, table numbers and signage. Who said these elements have to be made from paper? Give these small touches a twist by bringing in different materials — escort cards could be marble hexagons or jewel-toned geodes that feature names written in gold metallic calligraphy. Seating assignments could be written on the panes of glass in a large vintage window and hung at the entrance of your reception space. Table numbers can be etched out of wood or painted on acrylic slabs. Think of materials and textures that go along with your visual style and find unique ways to incorporate them throughout your space.

FOLLOW A THEME

In the planning process, friends and even Aunt Susie used to ask ‘what’s your theme?’ constantly. Now the question has been transformed into what are your colors? But that doesn’t mean a tropical luau isn’t an option if you want it to be! Your big day could take its cue from your favorite movie, a mutual hobby or a special vacation spot. Or maybe you really want to capture the specific vibe of vintage glam, outdoor bohemian or classic romance. Choosing a “themed” wedding doesn’t mean that every single detail needs to be overt. You can incorporate hints of your theme in smaller, subtle ways. Serve food and drinks that connect with the overall motif like rum punch and piña coladas for a tropical affair. Your cake or sweets table could feature a custom cake topper or themed decor. Or you could name your tables with themed phrases instead of numbers, like each of the places you’ve traveled together or the names of your pets. The most important factor to remember is that your theme feels meaningful to you and your spouse.

KEEP IT COHESIVE

Choosing your wedding aesthetic helps you develop a cohesive vision for every element of your big day, from music to florals to food. You really can’t go wrong, because the perfect style will be the one that reflects you and your partner in a personal way. So take this opportunity to throw the party of a lifetime with a vibe that tells your unique love story.

Chicago History Museum

1601 N. Clark St. | Chicago, IL
312.642.4600 | chicagohistory.org/weddings

Embarking on a multifaceted park beautification project, the Chicago History Museum is the perfect backdrop for couples seeking city history while being immersed in beautiful landscapes. The renovation includes the plaza and construction of the Richard M. and Shirley H. Jaffee History Trail — an interpretive path through the park space around the Museum. It will also incorporate fire relics from the Great Chicago Fire of 1871, ideal for history-loving couples! Additional elements include all new landscaping complete with a native species garden and trace plant shapes etched into the garden’s boulders. The unique setting offers memorable photo opportunities around every corner.

Blush Blooms & Co.

403 Earl St., Ste. C | Shorewood, IL
815.514.9541 | blushbloomsco.com

Blush Blooms & Co. can create the wedding of your dreams. Located in Shorewood, Kaylee Spain and her team create not only beautiful floral designs for weddings of any size, but also offer fabric/linen and lighting design. For micro weddings, large scale ceremonies and receptions, whatever the size or need, Blush Blooms & Co. can create something special. They partner with a number of photographers, event spaces and other vendors to help make your day even more memorable than you imagined. Jasko Omerovic Photography

The Drake Oak Brook, Autograph Collection

2301 York Rd. | Oak Brook, IL
630.571.0000 | thedrakeoakbrookhotel.com

The Drake Oak Brook, Autograph Collection now offers the brand- new, luxurious Presidential Suite. This 2,400-square-foot penthouse accommodation exudes glamour from the moment you make your grand entrance through the double doors. High ceilings, expansive views, a fireplace, full kitchen and a hand-crafted bar are just the beginning — no expense has been spared in this spacious two-bedroom, two-and-a-half- bathroom suite. Featuring sparkling chandeliers and a rich art collection, this space is fit for royalty. It’s no wonder Prince Charles used to stay here. Michael Dubina Photography

Razny Jewelers

1700 Green Bay Rd. | Highland Park, IL
847.432.5300 | razny.com

Celebrating 70 years as the Chicago area’s favorite family-owned jeweler, Razny Jewelers has unveiled a world-class expansion in the city’s North Shore neighborhood. The most stunning addition is their new Rolex installation, like no other in the city — one of the most substantial collections held by any private jeweler in the nation. Offering fine Swiss timepieces alongside designer jewelry, including engagement rings and wedding bands, Razny Jewelers is also known for their in-house service and design shop, complete with expert watchmakers and artisans.

Magnolia’s Weddings and Events

389 Bartlett Plaza | Bartlett, IL
630.855.4413 | magnoliasweddingsandevents.com

Newly opened in the heart of historic downtown Bartlett, Magnolia’s Weddings and Events is a warm and rustic space created exclusively for intimate parties. Complete with wood-beamed ceilings and exposed brick, Magnolia’s elegant farmhouse atmosphere is perfect for hosting showers and micro weddings with up to 100 guests. Dedicated to personal service, this charming venue includes a wedding coordinator, as well as all rental items — including beautiful chairs, fine linens and a farmhouse table — for a seamless event, providing a uniquely elegant look for your special day.

SuitShop by The Groomsman Suit

1820 W. Webster Ave., Ste. 410 | Chicago, IL
773.303.6006 | suitshop.com

Not everyone who needs a suit is a groomsman, leading The Groomsman Suit to transition into the SuitShop. Founded in 2016 to help men find attractive, well-fitting and affordable style options for their wedding day, the shop has since expanded to help women looking for alternatives to wedding and bridesmaids dresses. SuitShop is one of the most inclusive of any brand with all adult jacket and pant fits being interchangeable, all while continuing to offer stylish options for any gender, size and budget.

Wildman BT

3020 W. Carroll Ave. | Chicago, IL
312.248.2828 | wildmanbt.com

Built in 1914 and revitalized to its original architectural finish in 2020, the Wildman Boiler & Tank building is one of Chicago’s newest venues. Unassuming on the outside yet magnificent on the inside, modern couples will admire the elegance of century-old exposed brick, natural light from double skylights, posh salon furnishings and a marble bar. Mixing old with new, Wildman BT integrates the luxury of 21st-century details throughout the space with state-of-the-art audio-visual technology, climate control and layered lighting for setting the perfect mood. Trope.com

Every Kind Of Beautiful Beauty & Bridal

45 S. Old Rand Rd. | Lake Zurich, IL
847.847.7251 | ekobbeauty.com

Every Kind of Beautiful Beauty & Bridal is a salon and bridal lounge with a mission to help women of every age, size and skin color feel beautiful and confident. Specializing in both hairstyling and makeup application for weddings, occasions and photoshoots, this beauty lounge is a one- stop shop brought to life by owner Brianna Clark. Along with being a home for stylists who work with clients every day, the glamorous salon space is perfect for bridal trials, consultations and wedding party glam on your big day. Charlie Misicka Photography