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How Can Mom Help Her Daughter Find the Perfect Wedding Dress? – With Kathryn’s Bridal

By Anna Novak, Marketing Manager at Kathryn’s Bridal | Feature Photo by Monica Lynn Photo

 

As a bridal boutique, we at Kathryn’s Bridal often encounter nervous mothers worried about what to say or do during their daughter’s wedding gown dress shopping appointment. So many thoughts and concerns run through the mind of a mom! Some commonly asked questions include:

  • What is the appropriate amount of involvement that a mom should have?
  • Can I tell my daughter which gown is my favorite?
  • Does my daughter really want my opinion?
The search for your daughter’s wedding dress should be fun and memorable. This is a day your daughter has probably dreamed of. Shopping for her wedding dress can truly be a wonderful time for mother/daughter bonding. Based on our experience, we’d like to offer some words of wisdom to ease a mother’s mind while accompanying her daughter to her appointment.

The Honor of your Company

Remember that your daughter invited you to be present at this moment because your presence matters to her. Deep down inside, every daughter wants her mother’s love and approval. Simply being there for her with an open, loving heart is most important. Tell your daughter she is beautiful. She wants to hear those words come out of your mouth. She dreams of making you proud. The only thing you must remember to do during the appointment is smile and nod to express your pride.

Offer Your Approval

When she asks you which dress is your favorite, resist the temptation to admit you actually have a preference. Even if you do not like her favorite, refrain from expressing your opinion. She is really hoping you will love her top dress as much as she does. Therefore, do not disappoint her by expressing any form of hesitation. She will be crushed if your opinion differs from hers.  She wants your support and approval. This is the moment when you repeat the words: “You look beautiful.”

Share in the Excitement

When your daughter is ready to say “yes” to the dress and joy is beaming from her face, please do not deflate her moment by suggesting she “sleep on it.” The actual excitement for her is in the very minute she knows this is her dress. Suggesting she leave the shop empty-handed to spend the evening thinking about a dress will only create hesitation and doubt. Questioning her at this decision-making time can often crush her self-esteem and create confusion. In our experience, brides are looking to Mom for support. So, share in her joy and excitement! Tell her congratulations when she decides!

Wishing all our brides and mothers the most wonderful shopping experience ever!

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    July 12, 2024

    Love this! Thank you for sharing!

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