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Q. My fiance and I are already fighting about money. I don't know what to do. I have shared most of my info with him (salary, credit debt, car loans, savings) and he will not share anything with me. He said that we should keep it all separate. Now my friends say I shouldn't trust him at all. I'm very confused and disillusioned. I love him very much, but I feel he doesn't trust me enough to open up to me. What should I do?
Yours Truly,
Money Girl |
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Q. My fiance and I are having problems. We had originally talked about all the big issues, or so I thought. Now, all of a sudden he's not sure he wants children, not sure he wants joint bank accounts, not sure he wants to live in my apartment, not sure of anything we had decided on. I'm really worried. I don't know who or what made him change his mind. He doesn't even want to talk about it. Do you have any suggestions on where I can find a guide to use to begin negotiations? I feel like I don't even know him anymore.
Sincerely,
Engaged to a Stranger |
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Q. I hate to sound negative before my marriage has even begun, but I’m wondering if my fiancé and I might be good candidates for premarital counseling. We don’t fight all that often; however we do have some unresolved issues when it comes to our finances and spending habits. I really want our marriage to work and don’t want to spend our lives fighting about things we should have resolved before the wedding. Do you think premarital counseling is helpful to couples in our situation?
Sincerely,
Lover Not A Fighter |
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